Community

Community rules and privacy

A place for adults seeking marriage. These rules keep it respectful for everyone.

A place for adults seeking marriage

Be honest about who you are. Respect boundaries. Do not impersonate anyone, harass, threaten, share sexual material, solicit money, or publish another person’s private information. Only the adult described by a profile may consent to publication. Email confirmation verifies access to an email address, not a person’s identity.

Your choices

Your profile starts private. Publication requires your consent and review. Eligible introductions see only the preview fields and approved photos. Your email, birth date, and matching preferences stay private. Your partner description stays private unless you turn on “Share this answer on my profile.”

Edits to a published profile appear straight away and keep your introductions in place; edited profiles may be checked again against these rules. You can pause at any time and resume immediately without another review. Pausing only hides you from introductions; existing connections can still view conversation history and send and receive messages. Someone you are introduced to can send up to two opening messages after choosing Interested; the conversation opens fully once you reply or are interested too. Passing closes it.

Stop contact and report concerns

Use the block and report controls on introductions or in conversations. Blocking or disconnecting prevents further contact and hides conversation history from both members. Unblocking does not reopen a connection. Reported messages are shared only with authorized reviewers; staff access is recorded.

Help and appeals

Use help and appeals to submit an account or moderation concern, even if you cannot log in. If someone is in immediate danger, contact local emergency services.

Data and retention

Exports are available for 24 hours. A deletion request hides your account immediately and schedules removal after seven days. Reports and explicitly attached evidence are retained for up to 30 days from submission. Read the full privacy notice.